September 2008


Uncategorized06 Sep 2008 05:41 pm

“Mom! Mommeeeeee! If I am good in the store can we go next door and buy me a book?”
“We’ll see sweetie.”
20 minutes later, in Borders, a small child runs for the children’s section. He bypasses the picture books, the early readers, and the chapter books, and launches himself at the math workbooks.
“Mom! MOMMEEEEEEEE!” (child snuggles book like a stuffed animal) “It’s a math book! I loooooooove math! Will you buy me a math book please please please please oh please mommy pleeeeeeeeeease?”

A kiddo is sitting at a computer, watching a low level toon get whaled on by 2 enemies.
Dad: “Uh, Sean? You’re higher level, you could help him, you know?”
S: “Yeah Dad, I could, but if I did that, how would he ever learn not to do that?!

S: “Mommy?”
Mom: “Yes sweetie?”
S: “You know how the other night daddy was telling me what part of the cow our dinner came from?”
Mom: “Yeah?”
S: “There are some things….there are some things I just don’t need to know while I’m eating. But not that I’m not eating, how many steaks CAN you get off of a cow?”

Uncategorized03 Sep 2008 08:01 am

A woman, 65 years old. Caucasian, fiscally conservative, living in a very wealthy suburb of a major metro area. She’s a widower, enjoys gardening and helps take care of her ailing mother and step-father.

A woman, early 60s. She too is Caucasian, and lives in a semi rural area close to the WV border. She is married, she and her husband are both retired. They take care of her father in law, who still lives independently, more or less. They are extremely active in their parish.

A woman, mid 30s. She’s a mother of one, works full time, and lives in a middle-upper class suburb in the midwest. Also, Caucasian, she enjoys knitting and cooking as her hobbies.

What do these three women have in common? They all come from extremely varied backgrounds- the child of a poor Jewish family in a major urban area, worked through school, college educated and with a master’s degree; one of several children in a Catholic family, no college degree; child of privilege, no college loans, higher degree. Two are devout; one very active in her faith. One traveled out of the country by age 13; another didn’t until she was 51 (save for Canada).

All three women have expressed their anger- their deep seated, visceral anger, that Senator John McCain evidently feels they will simply fall into line because there’s now a woman on the ticket. That these women, so ripe for the Hillary camp, will be easily swayed. That they’ll be blinded to the failings of Governor Palin- by which I mean not the foibles of a child, because you cannot control a teenager, only arm them (and I would argue she failed in the arming, but there comes a point where you let your kids fly or fall). By failings I mean her lack of experience, her willingness to make political hay of her children (eg, the military service of her eldest son, in stark contrast to the dignified quiet of the Biden family on the upcoming deployment), her ethics lapses, her use of office as a bully pulpit to enforce her moral and religious code.- simply because of her gender. That Senator McCain could be so flip, so glib, so ill thought in his decision making process, and what that implies for his habits of mind should he take the highest office in the land.

I’ll tell you what else all three women have in common. Despite their demographics, all three women are Obama supporters in full now.

Uncategorized01 Sep 2008 10:35 pm

A mom teaches. A mom loves. A mom guides, supports, leads by example, lets children fail, helps them pick up the pieces. A mom stops what she’s doing 1000 times, a mom answers every question even if the answer is “I don’t know” or “Give me a minute and we’ll look it up”, a mom breaks her own rules every so often, a mom snaps when you whine about helping set the table. A mom tears up at stupid things, and treasures really bad drawings. A mom lets you maintain the fiction your stuffed purple rhino is alive. A mom will always have your back.

A mom does not put her child in the center of a media and political shitstorm sure to engulf them at their time of deepest personal trial. A mom will see the other path, take a detour to protect her child and family and do what’s best for all.

You. Just. Don’t. Throw. Your. Child. Under. The. Bus.